Amplifying the resultThere is no urgency, not yet, to decide. However, I am at a crossroads, sitting on the pavement, trying to decide. As Yogi Berra said…Oct 2Oct 2
The Jerk and the NarcissistOh! He’s a narcissist. She’s just a narciopath, (I’m not even sure where this one popped up, but I keep hearing it), or a borderline…Nov 24, 2020Nov 24, 2020
The Trauma Bond and the Victim in Narcissistic AbuseIf I had to ask you to define a victim without a dictionary, what would you say? Something happens to you that is negative or harmful and…Oct 12, 20201Oct 12, 20201
The Three Baited Lures of NarcissismNarcissistic baiting comes in three distinct ways and at three different stages in the cycle of this emotional abuse. There are other…Jul 7, 2020Jul 7, 2020
Wired and Tired. The Anxiety TrainAll illusions become a reality given enough time. I seem to recall reading that somewhere long ago. Are panic disorders and anxiety…Mar 4, 2020Mar 4, 2020
Reformat Your ThinkingAs I enter my fifties, something that I have been battling with is how to dissolve the crystallised feelings of hatred, betrayal and…Feb 20, 2020Feb 20, 2020
Other People’s LivesOn holiday recently, we were in the bush, it was notably green and lush, and there were many creeping and crawling creatures around us…Jan 28, 2020Jan 28, 2020
The Gamblers Game. Systematic Denigration and Love Bombing in Narcissistic AbuseThe Gamblers Game. Love Bombing and Systematic Denigration in Narcissistic Abuse.Jan 20, 2020Jan 20, 2020
Two Seasons. Gaslighting and Narcissism, the Descent into MadnessWhen I say the word gaslighting, I’m pretty sure most people well versed on narcissism immediately have the association with the movie…Dec 23, 2019Dec 23, 2019