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Tegwyn Fietze

The Jerk and the Narcissist

Oh! He’s a narcissist. She’s just a narciopath, (I’m not even sure where this one popped up, but I keep hearing it), or a borderline…

11 min readNov 24, 2020

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The Jerk and the Narcissist

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Tegwyn Fietze

The Trauma Bond and the Victim in Narcissistic Abuse

If I had to ask you to define a victim without a dictionary, what would you say? Something happens to you that is negative or harmful and…

13 min readOct 12, 2020

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The Trauma Bond and the Victim in Narcissistic Abuse

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Tegwyn Fietze

The Three Baited Lures of Narcissism

Narcissistic baiting comes in three distinct ways and at three different stages in the cycle of this emotional abuse. There are other…

17 min readJul 7, 2020

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The Three Baited Lures of Narcissism

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Tegwyn Fietze

Directionless

It’s Okay to not be Okay

6 min readApr 19, 2020

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Directionless

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Tegwyn Fietze

Wired and Tired. The Anxiety Train

All illusions become a reality given enough time. I seem to recall reading that somewhere long ago. Are panic disorders and anxiety…

10 min readMar 4, 2020

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Wired and Tired. The Anxiety Train

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Tegwyn Fietze

Reformat Your Thinking

As I enter my fifties, something that I have been battling with is how to dissolve the crystallised feelings of hatred, betrayal and…

9 min readFeb 20, 2020

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Reformat Your Thinking

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Tegwyn Fietze

Other People’s Lives

On holiday recently, we were in the bush, it was notably green and lush, and there were many creeping and crawling creatures around us…

6 min readJan 28, 2020

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Other People’s Lives

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Tegwyn Fietze

The Gamblers Game. Systematic Denigration and Love Bombing in Narcissistic Abuse

The Gamblers Game. Love Bombing and Systematic Denigration in Narcissistic Abuse.

15 min readJan 20, 2020

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The Gamblers Game. Systematic Denigration and Love Bombing in Narcissistic Abuse

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Tegwyn Fietze

Two Seasons. Gaslighting and Narcissism, the Descent into Madness

When I say the word gaslighting, I’m pretty sure most people well versed on narcissism immediately have the association with the movie…

11 min readDec 23, 2019

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Two Seasons. Gaslighting and Narcissism, the Descent into Madness

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Tegwyn Fietze

If I Could Just.

Synonyms for ‘If’ are stipulation, proviso, or condition. Did you think that you had suddenly found yourself unexpectedly in the middle of…

5 min readNov 27, 2019

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If I Could Just.

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Tegwyn Fietze

Tegwyn Fietze

A writer for many years. A long time ago, I used to send out articles to an email database regularly, in the days before blogs and platforms such as Medium.

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